{"id":9592,"date":"2025-02-13T14:38:48","date_gmt":"2025-02-13T11:38:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/belarus.fm\/?p=9592"},"modified":"2025-09-20T20:32:08","modified_gmt":"2025-09-20T17:32:08","slug":"but-3","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/belarus.fm\/lt\/im-not-a-feminist\/but-3\/","title":{"rendered":"Kiek kainuoja nam\u0173 ruo\u0161os darbas ir kaip j\u012f padalyti su vyru po lygiai?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<div class=\"podcastplayer\"><figure class=\"wp-block-audio podcastplayer\"><audio controls src=\"https:\/\/anchor.fm\/s\/1000c70c8\/podcast\/play\/98396770\/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2025-1-12%2F394750588-44100-2-7651c7ec66de8.m4a\" preload=\"none\"><\/audio><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<h5 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"mks_dropcap_letter\" style=\"font-size: 72px; color: #dd3c7a; \">T<\/span>Tre\u010diajame podkasto epizode t\u0119siama tema apie neapmokam\u0105 nam\u0173 ruo\u0161os darb\u0105: kiek jis i\u0161 tikr\u0173j\u0173 vertas ir kaip juo pasidalyti su partneriu?<\/h5>\n\n\n\n<p>Vienas i\u0161 patriarchato sp\u0105st\u0173 moterims &#8211; pirmiausia \u012ftikinti mus, kad nam\u0173 ruo\u0161a yra m\u016bs\u0173 tiesiogin\u0117 atsakomyb\u0117, su kuria tur\u0117tume susitvarkyti pa\u010dios. O jei nesugebame su tuo susitvarkyti, tur\u0117tume pra\u0161yti pagalbos. O jei pagalbos negauname, tai m\u016bs\u0173 kalt\u0117 &#8211; blogai papra\u0161\u0117me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>Jei jums atrodo, kad j\u016bs\u0173 poros nam\u0173 ruo\u0161os darbai pasiskirst\u0117 po lygiai, \u012fsitikinkite, kad taip ir yra.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>Kad pasitikrintum\u0117te, paliksiu jums nam\u0173 ruo\u0161os darb\u0173 kontrolin\u012f s\u0105ra\u0161\u0105, kur\u012f kadaise sudar\u0117 feminist\u0117 ir \u0161viet\u0117ja Tatjana Nikonova.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nuoroda, i\u0161 kurios galite atsisi\u0173sti kontrolin\u012f s\u0105ra\u0161\u0105: <a href=\"https:\/\/belarus.fm\/docs\/etc\/check-list.xlsx\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">lentel\u0117s formatu<\/a>; taip pat <a href=\"https:\/\/belarus.fm\/docs\/etc\/check-list.pdf\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">pdf formatu<\/a> (jei reikia spausdinti be skai\u010di\u0173). Jei neturite programin\u0117s \u012frangos \u0161iems failams atverti, <a href=\"https:\/\/view.officeapps.live.com\/op\/view.aspx?src=https%3A%2F%2Fbelarus.fm%2Fdocs%2Fetc%2Fcheck-list.xlsx&amp;wdOrigin=BROWSELINK\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">spauskite \u010dia<\/a> (kontrolinis s\u0105ra\u0161as atsidarys nar\u0161ykl\u0117je).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Jei turite vaik\u0173, u\u017epildykite daugiau pareig\u0173, susijusi\u0173 su \u0161eima su vaikais. Pirmiausia u\u017epildykite \u0161\u012f kontrolin\u012f s\u0105ra\u0161\u0105 patys, o tada leiskite j\u012f u\u017epildyti savo partneriui. Si\u016bly\u010diau j\u012f pildyti atskirai, nematant rezultat\u0173, ir tada palyginti. Yra ir kitas variantas &#8211; kiekvienas i\u0161 j\u016bs\u0173 u\u017epildo kontrolin\u012f s\u0105ra\u0161\u0105 u\u017e save ir u\u017e partner\u012f &#8211; tada taip pat pasitikrinate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>B\u016bna, kad, atrodo, nieko nedar\u0117te, bet ka\u017ekod\u0117l esate labai pavarg\u0119. Skambinote telefonu, kalb\u0117jot\u0117s su \u012fvairiais \u017emon\u0117mis, ka\u017ek\u0105 planavote. Tai ne grind\u0173 \u0161veitimas, ne skalbimas up\u0117je, nieko materialaus, k\u0105 gal\u0117tum\u0117te paliesti, nedar\u0117te, bet praleidote kelias valandas ir jau\u010diat\u0117s i\u0161spausta kaip citrina. Tai vadinama vadyba.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>Atkreipkite d\u0117mes\u012f, tai viskas, apie k\u0105 dabar kalbu, taip pat yra darbas. R\u016bpintis pareig\u0173 pasiskirstymu, jas studijuoti, sudaryti s\u0105ra\u0161\u0105, aptarti &#8211; visa tai yra vadyba, tai intelektinis ir i\u0161 esm\u0117s labai gerai apmokamas darbas, kur\u012f moterys savo projektuose, vadinamuose \u201e\u0161eima\u201c, atlieka kasdien, visi\u0161kai nemokamai.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Apie tai ir dar daugiau i\u0161girsite tre\u010diajame podkasto epizode&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Jei norite susisiekti su mumis, bet bijote ra\u0161yti komentarus, galite atsi\u0173sti mums el. lai\u0161k\u0105. Po to u\u017eteks i\u0161trinti lai\u0161k\u0105 i\u0161 aplanko \u201eI\u0161si\u0173sta\u201c.<br>M\u016bs\u0173 el. pa\u0161to adresas: <a href=\"mailto:help@belarus.fm\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener nofollow\">help@belarus.fm<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Vienas i\u0161 patriarchato sp\u0105st\u0173 moterims &#8211; pirmiausia \u012ftikinti mus, kad nam\u0173 ruo\u0161a yra m\u016bs\u0173 tiesiogin\u0117 atsakomyb\u0117, su kuria tur\u0117tume susitvarkyti pa\u010dios. O jei nesugebame su tuo susitvarkyti, tur\u0117tume pra\u0161yti pagalbos. O jei pagalbos negauname, tai m\u016bs\u0173 kalt\u0117 &#8211; blogai papra\u0161\u0117me. Jei jums atrodo, kad j\u016bs\u0173 poros nam\u0173 ruo\u0161os darbai pasiskirst\u0117 po lygiai, \u012fsitikinkite, kad taip [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":9,"featured_media":9529,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[382],"tags":[351],"class_list":["post-9592","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-im-not-a-feminist","tag-audio-in-russian"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/belarus.fm\/lt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9592","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/belarus.fm\/lt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/belarus.fm\/lt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/belarus.fm\/lt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/9"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/belarus.fm\/lt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9592"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/belarus.fm\/lt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9592\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/belarus.fm\/lt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/9529"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/belarus.fm\/lt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9592"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/belarus.fm\/lt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9592"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/belarus.fm\/lt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9592"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}